Update on 15/70 year old marriage debacle- MrRights

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This lady is not 15 year old as being claimed. She is actually 20.

But her situation is one of many things wrong with the northern Nigeria.

This is her 3rd marriage.

At age 20.

I mean at 20, she has been married thrice, divorced twice.

Isn't that worrisome?

Although, she wasn't forced into this marriage with her 75 year old husband as being insinuated, but the society has forced her into a life of perpetual misery and psychological instability.

What can a girl of 20, who has been married 3 times teach her kids? What did she know actually?

I won't be surprised if this lady already had more than 3 kids from her 2 previous marriage.

Now she is in her 3rd marriage and life goes on.

Sad

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