How Pius Adesamni saved 2 lives
Emergency Relationship Counselor- by Pius Adesanmi I may have saved her relationship this past January when I was in Ghana. A brilliant Ghanaian millennial. One of my graduate student mentees in Accra. She'll go places in academia. I notice she is sad. In Africa, you can poke your nose and ask personal questions in ways that would get you into a load of cultural and legal trouble in Oyinbo land. So I poke my nose into her business the African way. She breaks into tears. Prof, can I talk to you? I'm all ears. Prof, it's my fiance. What about him? He is misbehaving? Sort of. He is in America. He lives in Los Angeles. He came home for Christmas and promised my parents that he would return later this month for our registry marriage. This is mid-January and he has been dodging my calls. We chat but he is not saying anything about when he is coming for the marriage. How old is your fiance? 29. I see. How long has he been in America? About five years now.